I am not trying to start any fights or anything I just want to know what u consider a mom someone who gives birth... Or the person who actually gives up her who life to take care of a baby that's not even hers but is with the father.... Btw the mom has not been in his life for 3 years and now wants back in and he calls me mom and come to me when something happends. I just want to cry my eyes out because she says I am not his mom and never will be 😭😪😩😔😢