An update from me.

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(I tried to post this in the main thread as a comment but it said it was too long.)
Hello my long-lost ladies!  Sending out positive vibes to all of you. ❤️
My husband and I have been officially trying hard to conceive for a year now (plus 5 previous months off of BC and not being careful to just see what happens) with no luck so it's time to talk to my doctor and get referred to a specialist.  Sigh.  I'm definitely ovulating according to opks and my husband had a sperm analysis with good but weird results (about half of his swimmers don't go anywhere but he makes so MANY that the doctor says it actually balances out just fine, lol).  It's just disheartening. 
I haven't really been on here as much as each month passed with no changes.  I'm still rooting for all of you though!
It's been a huge mental, emotional, and physical test over this last year and then some.  Will we spend thousands on <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>?  Will we adopt? I've actually started to question if I do in fact want kids.  I enjoy the peace and quiet at home after working with kids all day.  I enjoy being able to do whatever I want when I want to do it.  I enjoy sleeping through the night. Etc etc etc.  I'm not sure if it's my subconscious way of coping with all of this or if I'm actually at a crossroads emotionally.
In any case, I'm going to have a few simple, beginning tests done to see if it's an easy fix or not.  When I get answers or if I'm left with more questions I'll go from there.
Sorry for the novel, I just wanted to pop in and let you all know where I'm at with all of this.  I'm thinking of all of you and wishing you all the best!
❤️❤️❤️