20 days left toll my due date and he still doesn't want the baby?

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I don't know what to do... He hasn't been happy about having a son at all. We are first time parents both. Only 20 more days till I have him, and you would think he would had changed by now?
He told me he had a dream that he had killed me and the baby and that he went to jail? 
He treats me very well just really doesn't want a kid. I've tried talking to him, his mom has, everyone has I just don't know what to do anymore!

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I'd be leaving as soon as he said his dream!!

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Sounds scared and the dream was most likely because he's been constantly thinking and stressing over it. I've heard "a woman becomes a mother when she finds out she's pregnant and a man becomes a father the first time he holds his baby". Now I know a man is a father when the woman gets pregnant but I say that meaning he might feel differently once the baby is born. Hope it all works out!

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Leave him! You don't need someoene Whos so negative if hes like that now think of how he'll be when the baby gets here. How the hell can you still wanna be by someone who tells you he had a dream he killed you and your baby? Sounds like a psychopath! Consider him a sperm donor and get the hell away from him

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Leave and go somewhere so you and your baby's safe. Once he would of said that he had that dream I would of been walking out the door.

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How did he react to the dream? Did it upset him or was he calm about it? His reaction would say a lot, I would think.

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I'd be getting out of there and bringing my baby up on my own sorry but he said he dreamt he hurt you ? wtf ? that is not appceptable and I'd leaving his ass for mine and my baby's safety x

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I wouldn't judge based on the dream either. Pregnancy often causes women to have crazy dreams that a lot of the time can involve the baby's death one way or another. I would consider his dream part of him being scared of the future & whether or not he will be a good enough father. I'd call it a sympathy symptom of your pregnancy.

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Do you have a support system in place that doesn't include him? If he's admitted to dreaming about harming you and the baby, who's to know for sure that he won't act on it. Get to a safe place as soon as you can.

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Ok most men don't get the fatherly feelings until the baby is born, unlike us, we feel it as soon as we find out. BUT wth would he tell you he had a dream like that?? I mean I know you can't help what you dream but he could've kept that to himself!! You should probably be preparing yourself for if he doesn't change. Make sure you have a way out just in case.

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Then leave him and you raise the baby.

20 days left toll my due date and he still doesn't want the baby?

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