Is it me or him?

11 years no kind of protection not even pull out. We have had no accidents ever! I get my period regular I have cm all the time. I lay there 30 min after he ejaculates  and BAM nothing.... Getting very close to 30!! And he just turned 26. What is the problem! People on drugs that don't deserve children have them left and right! We do nothing but work and sex and sleep. What is the issue!? 😪😪😪