Secretly wanting a baby.

I haven't always wanted children but in the past 3 years my options have changed. I'm not to the point is love to have a child. Everything in my life isn't perfect but I know I have the means to take care of a child. I'm afraid to bring it up to anyone because I only have an apartment, my s/o and I aren't married and don't plan on it any time soon. He wants a child but he thinks we should own our own home first. I'm getting impatient I don't want to wait. I know a lot of people would be mad at me for it because I don't want to go out and party like a "normal" 23 year old would. Helppp