Well. I was told today that I am single handedly destroying my husband's family and tearing them apart.

Why?

Well...let's review. Since they moved in with us:

I tried being friendly and they started attacking me verbally.

They are constantly putting me down.

They have repeatedly made it known that I'm not welcome.

And what have I done?

Been respectful.

Kept to myself (which earned me the label "antisocial")

Tried my hardest to please them

Held my tongue and my fists when I really REALLY wanted to lash out at them.

But apparently, according to them, I make them very uncomfortable, to the point they don't want to be around me. So they're all threatening to move out and leave because I'm tearing them apart. And my husband is letting me know that if they do, then we're over.

Their reasoning is I walk around the house aimlessly sometimes (umm I'm stuck in this house 24/7. I'm BORED), sometimes I stare off into space (it's called daydreaming. Maybe you should include me in the conversation and I'd stop it), I'm on my phone too much (again, talk to me and I'll stop), and I "lied". (This one is BY FAR the most stupid: before I met my hubby, I was a health nut. However, since moving in with him, I stopped eating as healthy because honestly? It's hard to with him around. He doesn't like it. And we've had that talk. So yes. I eat junk food occassionally. And they freaking hid cameras in the kitchen and got film of me eating a sandwhich with white bread and a handful of chips. So I "obviously" lied about being a health nut and now they just don't trust me and OMG what else have I lied about? It's like I'm a totally different person than what I claimed to be!) So they think I'm some crazy person with a lot of issues.

And usually my husband is on my side about these things. But today, his mom pulled him into her room for 4 hours and now he's just as convinced as the rest of them. What the hell??

I don't even know what to do or think.

It's like they came into our lives and destroyed us...

I'm beyond hurt. I've spent the past 6 hours trying to make sense of all of this and I'm so overwhelmed...

I guess I applaud them. They won. They destroyed my marriage. The one thing that was precious and sacred to me...and it's most likely gone now...I hope they're happy.