Any advice from women who've been through labor? I've spent pretty much my entire pregnancy not worried but the last few weeks people have been telling me awful stories. At two weeks left in my pregnancy I'm starting to get terrified. I've heard if you tear, you have terrible scars down there and your vagina gets lumpy. Someone told me they squeezed EVERYTHING out and it does not look or feel remotely the same. How does that even happen? This is just questions I'm too afraid to ask my doctor lol.