Will the hate ever stop ? Rant

So my MIL and SIL both seem to dislike me and I have done absolutely NOTHING to them. My MIL Loves to judge everything I do and she talks crap behind my back so does my SIL , i've tried being nice to my SIL but most of the time she just acts stupid and ignores me so I just gave up. As far as my MIL, we talk when I go over but not much at all you see , shes 2 faced.  ( thankfully we moved out! )  . But I just dont know why they dislike me so much like what did I ever do to you ? & what gets me annoyed is how one day my SIL told her cousin (that doesnt like me either) that my daughter is going to " love" her and her cousin was like noo shes going to love ME! Like no shes not going to love either of you guys because yall are stupid. Yeah thats your brothers daughter but im the one that carried her for 9 months and im the one that is going to go through pain to have her so at least be thankful or be nice to me! My husband works monday through friday so they wont be seeing my daughter those days no they cant come see her and no i wont let them take her over there. Theyre lucky if they get to see her on the weekend which are the days that my husband doesnt work but that will only be 1 day a week that they get to see her because im not going over on saturday and sunday . and he isn't allowed to take her call me selfish , I know its his daughter too and he has his rights but if I dont go then she wont be going either . And I dont feel bad about it they should of thought about that before treating me like shit . Like literally I dont like them joking or talking about me , I mind my business how hard is it to mind theirs ? Unless they change how they act with me or tell me they are sorry then thats the way its going to be. Anyone else going through the same thing ?