I am 36 weeks and 3 days. At 19 weeks we had our one and only ultrasound and we're told it's a boy. We (and both our families) were totally surprised as everyone's guess was Girl. In the months since, I've found it really difficult to accept the fact that it's a boy. I have birth dreams all the time that the baby's a girl, and refer to the baby as "she" in my head. I honestly had NO preference gender-wise, it just feels so much like my daughter in there. I obviously am riddled with guilt because this pregnancy has been so breezy and the baby is healthy!