I'm 17 weeks pregnant with my first and my sister just found out she is pregnant last week with her first also.  Is it bad that I'm not completely excited for her? I know it sounds a little selfish and I just feel like it was my time to celebrate this special time and that fact that it's our parents first grand baby, and now I have to share it with my sister. Plus she thought it would be a great idea for us to have a double baby shower, and I believe that no one should try to outshine the birth of my child! Please no rude comments!!