No sex drive?

Question

I love my boyfriend so much. We have been together for a long time. Don't get me wrong I get turned on and horny occasionally But i only want sex maybe once a week? Sometimes even less than that. I want to be more intimate with him and be able to have that "spark" and get turned on more often. Any suggestions?

P.s. I don't get orgasms vaginally. Only by clitoral stimulous. Do you think that could be way I don't crave sex? Please help. Thanks (:

Answer

Once a week is good for us. We have the opposite problem. My hubby has a lower sex drive. Maybe I can help you see his side lol. These are my thoughts. If I knew he wanted it so bad I would give it to him. It is all good things. Nothing bad. Release, connection, exercise, intimacy. To me it defines a romantic relationship. It can only strengthen your relationship. lots of lube. That will make things better if you aren't naturally horny. Lots of kissing. I can only have a vaginal orgasm from being on top. It is never his fault. I always stress that. It all has to do with my movements and my concentration. He knows if I tell him don't move it means I've found "the spot" and he better not move. Lol.

Answer

I am the same way. I have been with my guy for awhile and my sex drive has gone down, but I figure if I give in more it will go back up. And don't forget to spice things up a little. Get toys, roll play, etc. Never give up trying

No sex drive?

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