Ttc overweight

Hello :)

I'm at this really akward state with my weight. I gained most of my new weight in my stomach and very recently at that (50 lbs in one year mostly stomach and mostly in these last few months) so a lot of my co workers and people I see on the day to day such as bankers and cashiers go "oh your expecting!" It's understandable but hard at the same time because I'm having trouble conceiving #2 and have been trying for about a year so when people frequently go "congrats" "what a cute bump" "how far along are you?" It's depressing. Does anyone else have this issue? :/