I've been with my husband for ten years and we have children but he went and got the "snip" last December. I made it clear I didn't know if I wanted more and he made it clear he didn't. It's been a little over a year since the snip and all I can think about is how I'd like another. I've brought it up Agee times but he reminds me he had the snip and isn't reversing it. A friend has offere me the help getting pregnant no strings attached and I feel so bad that I've actually thought of taking it. Not for sex my husband an I have a great sex life, but I don't want to never have another and I don't want to wait for my husband to maybe sorta never likely come around in ten years. If I take my friend up on his offer I end my marriage, but have a baby like I want. If I don't I never get to fill that want, and feel regret and an empty spot forever.