I don't feel loved. (Small rant)

Mindy • So excited to have our first. A little boy in February!
I love my little family so much, there's only three of us! But sometimes it would be nice to feel more loved, especially from my husband. He expects me to do so much for him (asks to have sex at least 5 times a day, tubing his feet, laying in bed together, being alone) when I have so much on my plate already. My son is just over a month old so I'm constantly feeding, changing him, cleanin house, pumping, etc. Is it too much to ask him to help me more with feeding and cleaning and just loving on ME a little bit?! Or am I being too selfish?