I'm going out for a coffee this morning with a friend who's just lost her baby. I'm 6 weeks pregnant, found out just after she told me her news and so I told her already. I've had a stillborn baby and 7 miscarriages as well as my 3 wonderful sons so I totally get the pain of loss. I'm just struggling to know how to handle her pain when at the moment all seems to be going well for me. Any suggestions?