I am 20 years old, not dating anyone, and living the single life. I imagine I'm like lots of young women in the fact that I dream about meeting "The One" and the thought of him looking for me too is something that keeps me going. Last night I decided I'd write a letter that I could give to whoever this man will end up being, after we get engaged. I wrote about how if he was reading it, it meant that I finally found the love of my life and I wrote about how I've loved him even now, before we've actually met. I've been in love with the IDEA of him my whole life. Do you think I should actually give a man this letter someday, or do you think he would think I was a total weirdo?