How hard baby kicks

Desiree • CA • NC. RH neg. married. Momma to a almost three year old.
Sorry if I post way too much! I posted a few days ago about wondering if i should be concerned about drop in movements. I guess I'm always wondering, if i can feel my baby move but the movements and kicks are soft, should I be concerned about flucuation in how hard my baby kicks? Someday i feel like it's a circus in there and other days theyre just soft kicks and rolling movements.