It was so easy for my first pregnancy. One month and we were pregnant...and now we are trying for baby #2. I just can't understand why this time it is so difficult. We have intercourse every other day and for the last 4 months I'm still getting negatives. My family has a high pregnancy rate for easy conception, no one has ever had problems when trying. It is starting to ware on me and my husband. Any suggestions, or comments of encouragement?