Missing Your SO?!?

Question

I've always missed my hubby when he leaves for a long hard day, but now that I'm pregnant I feel like I have to be around him I don't want him to miss one moment even small ones, but I know that he has to go so we can pay the bills, keep food on the table and everything else. Sometime I can't wait to be alone because have small disagreements(rarely though)and he makes me mad, but all the way around I still love him. Do you ladies have this problem.

-McKenzie 😘🌟

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Ha my husband is in the military, was gone all last year on a deployment while I took care of our 1 year old, now I'm pregnant again (with our last child) and he's been gone for 3 months straight already...yes I miss him very much, especially when I need the help or the morning sickness is getting the best of me:( i know what you mean though

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I missed him like crazy. He was gone  all day from before I woke up til an hour before bed. It drove me mad.  
We lived in Cyprus for 4 years  and spent our days together. I worked night's part time and he had odd computer jobs and could work from home. 
We moved to England July 14
We stayed at his place in essex and he got a job in London. The plan was to sell his house and move to a bigger one for the 3 of us. His flat was a small 1 bed so I didn't work and spent my days scrubbing the carpets to get rid of the tenants mess and painting the walls fixing things up redoing the kitchen and got it on the market. 
He was hell  bent on moving to london  but I'm from scotland and london isn't the right place for a family or to raise my son. Too expensive to live etc. He was offered a job in Cambridge and didn't take it.
I didn't know anyone there and he didn't introduce me to his friends. I had no life and he'd get annoyed that I'd be clingy and want to spend time with him and  he'd disappear at the weekend while I stayed home or did things with my son.

I asked him to move pay less for a house be closer to work and earn the same pay. He refused outright telling me his job was so important and really good for his CV.. Then I found heroin. Him being back around his old friends got him back into his old habits.

I left took my son and flew to scotland. This was in January. friday last week he came up for a visit and was supposed to stay til tuesday he was talking about moving wanting to have a family he lost his job a few weeks after I left and he promised me he was clean. On Friday there was something  not right with him so I asked him what he'd taken, knowing he doesn't like flying. It was mkat. On Saturday morning  he went into heroin withdrawal.  I bawled  my eyes out and he changed his flight and went back. 
Told me not to trust an addict and that he just wanted to say bye. 
Gutted but miss him more than ever

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I can do both but I'm really clingy now. Like I'm always giving him random hugs. Plus he's nicer and more protective and interactive which is awesome

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My husband was military for years but now we get the same day off every two weeks. It's really annoying because we both work long hours

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I Love spending time with my husband.. I rush home to be with him if he is home first, he rushes home if I get there forst. We also like to enjoy some alone time as well. We have friends and family we spend time with away from eachother... but we have so much in common and get along so well, we love spending time togther. He is my best friend.. even after 10 years together ♡

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I like my own bubble. It is necessary to have some alone time, to me anyway!

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Lmao I cried when I was gone the one night for my bachelorette party. We never go anywhere without each other but working is different. If he were to go to a class out of town though I would arrange my schedule to go with him.

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I love my SO and our relationship is great but I value my alone time. Sometimes he travels for work and while I miss him it's also nice to have that few days by myself.

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It's even harder when your husband is deployed.

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I love my husband, I miss him terribly when he leaves for a week, or sometimes, months. But I really can't stand being around him every moment of the day while I'm pregnant. He aggravates me to no end. Like I said, I love him dearly, but I need my space from him sometimes. He's like a child occasionally. I know he needs his break from me as well, I'm not full of sunshine and rainbows that's for sure.

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