Does your partner get "stage fright?"

Hubby & I are TTC for #1. I have wanted to start TTC for years, but he just recently decided he was ready.

He struggles with a lot of stress/anxiety. He understands how badly I want a child, and he wants one too (really bad).

We never had any complications with our sex life until we started TTC. Now, he gets anxious about sex. If I tell him we need to do it bc I am ovulating, he is so nervous he can't even get an erection.

We came to the agreement that I am not allowed to tell him when I am ovulating, since it makes him anxious. Now he barely even wants to have sex. We only do it every 10 days or so.

Does anyone relate? If not, it feels good just to get the frustration out there. ;)