I'm so pissed right now but also afraid that if we don't fix this our marriage is not going to last long... my husband and I are coming up on our 7th year of marriage and I feel that we don't have fun or do anything together.... we both somewhat have separate bank accounts we do have one that in linked together which is suppose to be our savings account but we really find it hard to save.... we dont do any fun together.... he rarely goes to church with me.... his weekends or days off he'd rather spend it drinking and playing cards with his friends.... and I'm soo tired of it I'm only 29 and he just turned 31 and I feel that we are way too young to experience this at our point of our lives....he never comes up with something fun or different for us to do and if he should ask me out on a date it's always to a lame freaking movie (every freaking time) we just got into an argument because I mention these issues in which he just dismissed them off and stated that it's late and he didn't want to talk or argue about it..... I'm an adventurous person and I'm always open to making life experiences but I have been feeling really old and boring especially since I gained so much weight and got married... even if I try to plan a vacation some where he never wants to really go unless I pressure him and of course I have to plan everything out which really tires me.... please give your opinions on what could make this situation change for the better because I want and need to hold to my marriage but like I mentioned to him if it doesn't I'm afraid I will be bored and we will ended up going our separate ways 😢