How to deal with these conflicting feelings?

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Hi Everyone,
My Partner and I have been TTC since the middle if 2013 (with a little break) we had a miscarriage in August 2013 and since then, no luck. We are getting married at the end of this year. However my Brother just announced that him and his girlfriend are getting married before us, and that they are 14 weeks pregnant. It was not planned. 
I am very happy for them, but at the same time wonder why we have to wait so long for our BFP, and they get pregnant while not even trying. I can't help feeling that it's not fair, but at the same time they are a great couple and will be awesome parents.
I just don't know how to deal with this.

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I don't know what I'd do. I've started tearing up in church when there's babies around. I just feel heartbroken all the time

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I know EXACTLY how you feel. For me, it was that my DH and I had been married for over a year and trying for 18 months before I got pregnant with our daughter and when I was 4 months in, my sister and her (then) boyfriend got pregnant by accident. Since then, they had a second unplanned pregnancy. We've only been trying for a year now (with a pretty substantial break following a mc last June), but it feels like I'm never going to get pregnant again and every time my BIL looks at her she's knocked up, again. I feel your pain and frustration and I wish you only the best luck and lots of sticky baby dust!

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