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My soon to be hubby's family and mine are completely different they think if we have a girl he should change her or bath her cause he's a man 
My family thinks that the father should help no matter what I'm only 6 weeks so I don't know the sex but I have a 5 year old who's a girl I raised her alone but he helps since we've gotten together

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There's no reason a man shouldn't change his daughters diaper. That's his baby daughter. Obviously he wouldn't continue to bathe her once she hits a certain age but as far as diapers, he better. This was a topic of conversation with me and my husband before we found out the sex and he thought if it was a girl that he wasn't going to change her because he didn't want to see her vagina. I was not going to let that slide. He helped create the vagina, he can change the diapers. End of story.

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The baby is yours and ya fiancée,  u need to let him help u all. Don't make him feel left out. Now if he doesn't feel comfortable changing her then that's another story.  But let him make that decision.  In a relationship it's 50/50

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He said he wanted to help I just don't want him to feel pressure from his family

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