He doesn't kiss me to start sex ..(advice pls)

Amanda
He doesn't even kiss or makeout with me as a start for us becoming sexual with each other. Now lately I've notice he would pull out his (you know) & just smile at me and says things like.. Please or ok let's go. Like?.. Sometimes it'll be at random moments he would do that. Partly most of the time that he tries to start having sex with me. I have been distanced from him because I don't feel right.. The connection lacks because of no foreplay nor makeout session before intercourse.
Selfish much? Why is he doing this now.. He never used to be this way😕