Am I out?

Feeling sad...11dpiui I definitely ovulated and sperm count was phenomenal! But negative hpt all around. I said I wouldn't test till Friday but it's so effing hard. I had my hopes up so high and I'm starting to feel crushed. I don't want to get out of bed. My birthday is Thursday and I'm hoping to get the best birthday present ever but I feel like that's not going to happen. 😔
Can you ladies share when you got your bfp? Should I call this cycle quits? How many iuis before you got pregnant or called it quits?