What to do? I'm on a dating site I seen a co workers SO on there what do I do?

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Do I tell her?

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Before you do anything, make sure he's actually active. It could be a very old listing that he never deleted. But if it is active, she should know...

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Either just straight up tell her. Or be like look at these guys on this dating site I'm on. And scroll by him.

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If you are friends just casually show her the page and just so happen to scroll past his profile and let her see for herself.

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This happened at my office 3 years ago. The wife was told about it, and learned that it had been going on for a while. She is now divorced and rebuilding her life.

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If you and her are good friends then I'd tell her. If she's just someone you work with but aren't close with, I'd leave it.

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I think I would try to tell her... Either straight up or anonymously (like slipping a note in her desk before she gets to work or while she's out for lunch) depending on my relationship with her and my comfort level of telling her based off of that relationship. I'd just be apologetic and polite and say ____ is how I know, I'm the only one who knows, and also let her know that the information is safe with me.

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I think it depends on a few things. Is he active on the site or is it old? How close are you to your coworker? Are you close friends, or just coworkers?

If he's not active, no point in saying anything.

And if your not really close it may make things uncomfortable between you two at work.

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If you are close friends fine, but if you have no idea who the lady is, then it seriously none of your business.

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If you are close with him/her . Tell them but be respectful  . But if yall arent close . Stay out of it and mind you business.

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Really depends.
If it's gonna get popped out anyways because it's bothering you, you might as well casually mentioned it when you are alone. 
And for all you know they could have an open marriage.

What to do? I'm on a dating site I seen a co workers SO on there what do I do?

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