I'm so down, every month my hubby & I try & try with no success. DH is 41 & I'm 39 we are ttc our second child. I've tried everything temp charting, ovulation kits, soft cups, pre-seed, every other day method and every day even twice a day during my fertility window. Every month I get my AF and it's so heart breaking I just want to go fetal. I feel so down and hopeless, every month is such an emotional  coaster.