What would you do?

If someone told you you don't have any common sense and that you're immature?

I'm 19. I didn't have parents or really any adults teach me the "obvious" things everyone else seems to know. Shoot....if I didn't learn it at school, I had to teach myself or not learn it at all.

And I know that I'm farther behind in a lot of ways than most women because of this, and I strive daily to learn more. But I have to say, I'm doing pretty great thus far.

It just hurts that I got put down and made to feel totally stupid just because I have to use Google and pinterest often just to learn how to do all the things everyone else seems to be able to do without thinking. But then if I go with what I know and don't look for help and try to teach myself, I make a mess and end up doing it wrong, and then I'm STILL put down. So what's my other options? To just miraculously know and be perfect at it?

I feel like I can't win. Either way, no matter what I do, I'm stupid and a failure for not "just knowing".