Husband

Well the reason I am writing this is that I don't feel motivated like I did 3 years ago I can't keep the house clean and I always fight with my husband and now he said that I am worthless and he will find a woman that is a straight up WOMAN 
I say I don't care but inside I am crying and dying little by little these things he says to me is making me want to run away with my kids 
I don't know what to do anymore 
He's the type that doesn't have any communication skills 
So every time we "TALK" he yells and demands me to respect him if he doesn't do the same for me
I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore 
I'm always there for him why can he for me?