Husband against VBAC...

Laura • Married with an adorable 2 yr old boy and Expecting #2 12/1/15
Hello ladies I posted this in this section because I was afraid some women may get offended. Anyway my husband and I are expecting baby #2. My first delivery was a cesarian due to baby being breech. I desperately want to attempt a VBAC as this will be my last child. Now get this.. My husband is against it because he says my vagina will get loose. I told him that's not the case at all and he said prior to our marriage he has been with several women and one even claimed she "was stitched up tighter than an 8yr old" 😳 following vaginally delivery. He says the muscle tone defitnetly changes it's just men and doctors won't admit it. This has gotten me torn and I don't know what to do! Is there anyway I can convince him otherwise?! I want to experience a natural birth 😔