Ladies when did it hit your husband or SO that he was actually going to be a dad? We are 34 weeks, getting so close to our sons arrival and my husband still says it just doesn't feel real yet, he's completely calm & has no anxiety about it. He says it probably won't hit him until he's got him in his arms for the 1st time. I guess I just can't even comprehend how he's feeling because I already feel so close to him from carrying him this long. Any one else's husbands or SOs feeling the same way?