Need your opinion!! Family or not??sorry long story plz read!

I used to be in a very abusive relationship for a very long time. My family would always tell me to leave him and come stay with them.... well when I did decide to move on my girl cousin let me stay at her house I wasnt planning on stayin there for long.also Beacuse I would clean her house and she had a small dog that would pee all over so I would clean her also n feed her but she would tell everyone that I didnt do anything...anyways well I starting meeting ppl around the new area because I moved very far from where I use to stay for 6yrs with my ex bf... I got a job and I started staying at my friends house like every other day im 23yrs old so it doesnt really matter... so my cousin started wearing all my clothes n new heels I had just bought I notice and would ask her and she would tell me that she was washing my clothes n that my heels we're in the car but she never gave them to me ... then one day after work I went to change and my cousin was tellin me she was gonna get rid of some clothes that she didnt want no more so as she is showing me she pulls out a shirt of mine I was like "hey that mine" wtf n she was like "oh yea I didn't know" well I took that shirt. At that point I was like wheres my other clothes thats missing and she was like somewhere in the house and I told her I wanted it all back... after that I decided I was gonna move out so I texted her and told her that I wanted everything she never replyed back to. When I went to pick up all my stuff I didnt find anything the bag where all my clothes was in was ripped! Also my other two bags I had with creams and make up and stuff girls need they were empty out in the restroom I had to look all over the place to find them I remember. It looked like someone else was staying there but they werent there at the time. Later on when I txted her because she would never answer her calls I asked her where was all my stuff!!? I even was missing my underwear and bras ,dresses,brand new heels that she even went and bought with me she could of got the same heels if she wanted to but NO she got some other ones that she messed them up so bad she didnt take care of any of her shoes well nothing at all cuz she works for this so call primeamerica insurance that she claims that she gets all this money which is nothing but a scam!!and shes always working!! I almost got involved but its a waste of ur money!! I don't understand how she makes all this money yet she stold all my stuff. I also seen her pictures on I.g n fb of her wearing my clothes on her so call fancy trips that the company gives u for scamming ppl but the new bees we'll have to pay for some of these trips its so stupid well anyways back to when I texted her after I had grab w.e was left there she replied again that everything was there and that she had my heels also ..n she told me she had let a friend of her stay their n her bf (let me tell u this girl was trying to get at my current bf n she somehow became bff with my cousin n started working with her) she didnt last there fuck that bitch tho shes out of the pic lol... so my cousin never gave me anything back and at this point I didnt even want it back because I new everything was warned out n I had everything new when Moved there. I added everything up it really came up to 200$ but I told her just give me $100 its fine she said she didnt have it n that her friend that shhe let stay their took it n I was like how would she take it like I wouldnt let anyone come into my home n steal my cousins stuff. She had already scammed me for $100 to have her trained me to get in her job which she never did she instead trained that other hoe.... any how I told her to pay me she said she would give me $10 like really the heels weren't even ten dollars wtf so I told her I don't want to get my aunt involved to be a woman n just pay me n she just laughed and said no she wasnt gonna pay me. Well I had told my bro and mom what happen they said that wasnt right that we were all gonna sit down n fix it. It still hasnt happen yet its been over seven months if anything theirs been occasions where my mom is at my aunts and my cousin goes and laughs about it saying it was her friends bf ....another lie im honestly over it I just cant believe family would do this not even strangers that I had share room with have done that to me.. my aunt had told my mom shes was gonna pay me when she sees me but my cousin her daughter tells her she don't have to pay me nothing. I just want her to know she cant do this again. That this aint right and we are family... she try to make me look like im the liar but im like how can I lie about something so dumb like this that was the only stuff I had brought with me in the train when I moved from that abusive relationship! Plz no rude ppl.