I'm 4 years younger than my SO and because of that, his family think it's okay to talk about me when they have issues ABOUT ME but choose to say it to his face and not mine. Instead they just want to act all dandy like nothings wrong and that pisses me off. Like hello! I am a grown woman as well, my age shouldn't be a concern to you if I'm an adult like you. My age does not define my level of maturity. I can handle a grown folks talk, I'm 24.

I'm one of the nicest people you can meet, I'm very respectful and just a complete goof. I have not done anything to these people except eat the last slice of pineapple upside down and not feel a shred of guilt. All of this started just because I had a falling out with his cousin. My SO spoke of a very close friend of mine to her who had died a week before by suicide. She had spoken to me and I couldn't stop her and I felt like crap. I found out he had told her by her sister and I confronted him about it. I got upset with him for sharing information that had nothing to do with her. It was a very private and emotional thing and unless I wanted her to know I would of told her. He instead got upset with the sister and so did she like she did something wrong when she did not - his validation, "she shouldn't have ran her mouth" DITTO!!!! So after that we didn't speak anymore or see each other anymore until this year.

Now that I am coming back around, it's an issue. I've tried to make up with her but she shuts me down- I even said told her, we don't have to make up but islike to find common ground but NOPE. I've tried making up with her mother but she too shot me down p. I have given up on his other aunts in cousins, they are to petty with their fascination and addiction of spreading lies.

It's just not her it's his whole family. They all like to talk about me. His other aunt made a rumor (or his cousin) that I was pregnant with some other man's child. I've never been pregnant and he's the only man I have slept with. I was a prostitute, I was a druggie, they even made rumors of me making rumors about my cousin and it destroyed us. I'm so tired of it. I so desperately want to be liked by his family but I may just say "FUCK IT". (excuse my french)