How would you react?

I'm 26 weeks with my first baby girl. I just left my grandmothers house who I was really close with growing up. She was happy with my pregnancy at first because she wanted a grandson so badly. When I told her it was a girl she cried and said that was very disappointing to her. Tonight she gave me some things she had bought for the baby (which I am extremely thankful for!!!) BUT- it was all boy things. I'm not big on 'pink for girls and blue for boys' anyways-- I've gotten her clothes/blankets/bibs of all colors.. But she gave me onesies that said 'mommy's boy' and 'little man' . She said she wants a boy so badly and couldn't bring herself to get anything for a girl. My SO is very hurt by this, as am I. We are just happy we are having a healthy baby. But I'm not sure how to deal with her acting so harshly. My SO said it will definately effect how much we bring the baby around her- which I agree with because I don't want my daughter to be made to feel that she is not loved as much because she is not a boy.