Yes or no. If no why

I do none of the above. Feels good not to be his mom.

That sounds a bit motherly imo.My husband fends for himself pretty independently. He does his own laundry picks up his own messes and even wipes his own ass, all without my help too!

So so weird.  This is like a question from the 1950s. I married a partner and a friend and a lover. And so did he. We support and encourage and adore each other. We do not serve one another. Neither of us married a housekeeper, parent, etc. I can't imagine trying to stay stoked about a domestic situation like what you are describing.  Not even my old-school parents (in their 70s!) live like that. 

Yes i make my husband coffee pack his lunch wash our clothes and if he askes me to lay something out for him no problem. My husband treats me like a queen he always thinking about me and he shows me just how much i am a queen to him. So in return i treat him like a king. I admit at first i didnt because i felt like i didnt have too but i almost lost him because of that and just being non affectionate. Some men need that they need to feel loved not just hear it. If someone is doing their all for you and giving you the best of them its only right to do the same thing. Grow together dont loss your husband being selfish because youll regret it specially if that was to happen and you end up with someone who treats you bad or end up alone. Go against the negative feelings and thoughts let him feel and see how much you love and want him.thats what i had to start doing and i actually feel good about doing it. Just knowing hes smiling or happy because of me is a wonderful feeling. Im not saying it will be easy but the more you work at it it will become habitual.good luck to you.

I no longer make his breakfast or lunch because his work offers both. I do set the Keurig up for him and set his clothes, belt, keys, and wallet out on the couch, and do whatever else needs done for him... Basically all he has to do is press a button, get dressed, and go... I do so because I realize that I am very lucky to have the option and support to stay home and to have a husband who works so hard to support us... He wakes up very early and I want him to be able to get as much sleep as possible and I'll do whatever I can to make his morning easier. It may sound old school but I also clean the house at night time so he wakes up to a tidy environment... I know that starts ME off in a good mood lol. 

You sound like his mother..

I cook my husband dinner I wash his clothes, I fold them and put them away. I don't pick out or lay out his clothes. I use to pack his lunch, but recently he has been buying lunch. He does his own breakfast. My husband works 12 hrs a days including most weekends. He spoils me and he helps me do things around the house when he's not working. My husband is amazing and I don't mind taking care of him at all :)

Yes! I work full time and still totally enjoy fixing my husband lunch, doing the laundry and cleaning the house. Don't get it wrong though, I enjoy doing this for him. He works really hard long days in a shop that can sometimes reach 110 degrees. When we first met he said that he fell so easily for me bc I was the only woman who took care of him. It's just what works for us. (Disclaimer: of course he does all the yard work, takes out the trash and does all my Pinterest projects without ever complaining!)

Yes because he is busy at work making money. I feel like it's the least I can do

None of the above- he's a big boy and can take care of himself