I have held on to divorce papers for Months since I moved out of my husbands house into my parents home. They want us to get a divorce in the worst way because he has been pretty terrible to me through out our relationship but I wanted to make it work- thru better and worse- we have had mostly worse but things at times seem to be getting better here and there. Then today I was picking on him asking him about this girl on face book who he shared a cute photo that she probably shared at some point and he then shared and I asked him why he was friends with a girl who's name is something about sexy grinding.