Bariatric Patient - TTC

Tenielle
So I am a bariatric patient, 3 years post op. At my heavies I weighed 447lbs and went down to 250lbs. I'm 5'7 and cary my weight pretty evenly. At my heaviest I used to suffer from sever cramping and long irregular periods. When I lost the weight my periods shortened from 2 weeks to 4 days and would came at the same time every month and the severe cramping went away.
Today my period is irregular - I've been tracking on Glow and I didn't get my period for 2 months and this month I was 4 days late. Cramping is sever but my period stays for a short time. 
Are there any other weight loss surgery patients on here that are trying to conceive? I would love to exchange emails or get Intouch. 
I began to gain weight after my marriage. My husband loves me unconditionally but I'm beginning to feel insecure and not as beautiful as I felt when I was slim. I can say it's also taking a toll on our sex life (when momma doesn't feel sexy, hubby gets none lol) 
At this point if I'm not losing the weight for myself I want to do it so that I Can have a family and a healthy pregnancy. 
So if anyone is willing to share tips on how they got back into their healthy lifestyle I would really appreciate it. I'm looking for a cycle or accountability buddy!!
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