Babyshowers

I am 34 weeks, I feel like everyone in the general pregnancy and the July 15 forums are posting about their baby showers and I'm jealous :/ it's my second baby and no one offered to give me one so I just told everyone I wasn't having one. My first was a boy and this is a girl but i just didn't want to invite a bunch of people and plan it by myself only for no one to show up because they feel like I already had one. Now I'm sad but can't change it so oh well...