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Question

So lately I've been wanted to give my SO a BJ but .. I'm scared I don't want to mess it up . He'll be the first and I know I'm not his first . Also I'm scared I get any complications . N I don't know how to ask him if he's been checked . What should I do ?

Answer

Just ask him. I'm a firm believer in if you aren't ready or comfortable talking about a sexual act maturely with your partner you aren't ready and shouldn't be comfortable doing it.

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The best part of a relationship is COMMUNICATION. You need to be able to communicate & it will make your relationship better. You will feel at ease if you ask him. I personally think its better to just say what you feel rather than just wonder. I'm sure he would understand you asking him. You only get one body ! I hope this helps. Safe sex is always fun 😉

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