How is marriage after baby for everyone? Mine is definitely not what I expected. I usually don't come out and blab my whole life to people but things have been really hard lately. My husband and are have a very different relationship, from day 1 he has always helped his uncle and cousin out on racecars (dirt late models). Actually the racetrack is where we met. We both really enjoyed it. We went every weekend together most every Friday and Saturday, so we spend little to no time home. He is also in the race shop pretty much every evening, and if it's not racing season it's hunting or fishing. But it always worked for us. Now that the baby is in the picture I don't go out with him bc it's hard having a baby at the racetrack and I like to keep him on schedule. Well we literally do nothing together any more besides maybe going out to eat on Sunday's. He's still gone during the week and late getting home on weekends. I find myself getting more and more agitated over the situation bc his life has not changed one bit. He offers to take him but I don't want to leave the baby I just want all of us to hang out. My getting aggravated has lead to me being a bitch bc honestly I'm just tired of doing everything. I love my son and I will do everything for him no problem bc I do but it's nice sometimes to have help. We are on the verge of separating. We are only together bc of the baby. It's horrible. I guess I'm not looking for answers or a pity party just wondering what you girls would do in this situation. I admit I have gotten a great relationship with the baby therefore I want things done the way I do them, I'm a slight perfectionist so that makes things worse too. I'm fighting a never ending battle I believe.