Vent/Rant

I am so sick of people doing the running joke of men not caring about babies, pregnancy, wives, etc. 
My husband and I went to our first baby class today and did a check in on Facebook (of course lol) his mum comments with "did you get through it without sleeping". Yes my adult husband and father to be DID enjoy and pay attention in class. Also it was recently my birthday and hubby got me a cake and present ... Comments from his sister "did he actually remember though" and from his mates "cake? What did you do wrong mate!" 
I know I know I'm pregnant and hormonal but men do actually love and care about their waives and families. The stupid jokey stereotype that wives are naggy and needy is really pissing me off lately.