When women focus on other women's fertility

Ali • 28. Momma of two beautiful girls

This app is used to track monthly cycles. It is also used to prevent unwanted pregnancies and create pregnancies where wanted.

The last two weeks I've been extremely disheartened at how unsupportive women can be, and it boils down to one issue: their own fertility. I've seen posts where women are considering abortions and many women come forward to bash the poster because they should be thankful they can get pregnant. Excuse me but how is that fair to the poster and how does her fertility effect another's infertility?

It doesn't. I understand and support all women here and I feel for the women that have been aching desperately to give a child a home that haven't been rewarded. But honestly complaining about another woman's ability to get pregnant is not going to make you get pregnant any faster. It's also not fair to make people that support abortion feel like crap. It's also not fair to bash pregnant women that complain about pregnancy pain because you are struggling to get pregnant.

Also I will add that all of you that keep saying "I will adopt your baby so you don't abort it" there are 100,000 children available at this moment to be adopted and almost over 300,000 in the foster care system. They need mothers too. Please consider opening your home to one of them.