My bf of 4 years didn't chew when we met. He started chewing (to my disgust) on and off over the last few years. I would throw fits and show him horrible photos of cancer, etc.

Now, lately, he has been going through a tin a day, leaving his spit bottles everywhere, and driving me nuts. I'm at my wits end and I have told him this. He seems like he doesn't care, so I gave an ultimatum.

Tobacco is something I feel very strongly about and am so grossed out that we hardly even kiss anymore. We never makeout, because his mouth reeks and I'm so disgusted by the idea of it being in his mouth.