But My SO and I have both come from catholic families. Our grandparents are extremely reglious, mass going, run of the mill, irish Roman Catholics. But our parents never go to mass unless it's for a special occasion. At dinner today the subject of grandchildren came up yet again. Our mothers are annoyed because we won't be having our children baptised. We don't believe in it. But if the children want it when they are older then we will support them. That's not good enough in their eyes. And what is more annoying is, it's not even the religious side of it that annoys them. They just want a bloody party to show off, or worse! Somebody might talk behind their backs! Ehh I very hormonal today! If I didn't love apple tart as much as I do. I would of smashed their faces into it!