Not knowing is killing me!

I am currently in day 62 of my cycle the last cycle I had was Apr 22nd it was a normal cycle my next cycle was due on the 27th of may. Here it is June 22nd and no visit from aunt flo. But I've taken several hot and gotten negative results but I've been nauseous constantly bloated headaches and lower abdominal pain a sore nip here and there and my boyfriend has been feeling the same way. How long does it take for the hormones to show up on a test? Like I've been through this before but my cycle is usually no more than two weeks late its going on a month now I hate to get my hopes up because I'm always devastated at the end when my cycle shows up. And if I'm not pregnant then what is wrong with me?