Okay ladies. Don't be too hard on me I'm pretty good at what I do (being a mommy) ! Nevertheless, I'm 19 on baby 2 😔. My SO is 24.  My first baby was born in December 2014 so he's still  a baby and still needs lots of attention, but he's never really been a mamas boy he's always wanted daddy he always choose daddy over me. Well now he never wants to leave me. If he's sleep and I put him down he wakes up, if he's crying and daddy picks him up he keeps crying until I get him. If I leave out of a room he'll cry until I comes back. He just always wants to be with me. I'm not sure if that has anything to do with baby two or if he just in fact wants to be with me. Has anyone had this problem with their kids and if so how do you deal with it ? Second problem is I'm currently a college student working on my Bachelor's in Psychology and SO just recieved his Bachelors in May and wants to go back for his Masters already. I don't think we can both work and both go to school with TWO babies. It will be almost impossible. So I told him he should wait until I finish my degree until he goes back. He says that I'm being selfish and that undegrad is "easy" so I will be able to do school and take care of the kids and that it will be better for him to go right back since school is still fresh to him. I don't agree. Am I being selfish? What would you do or say to him in this situation? I'm trying not to get too upset and worked up because we are still in the early stages and stress isn't good for pregnancy. Any help or ideas are welcomed PLEASEEE !