What do u think I should have

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Do u think I should have a regular birth my sister said that it hurts like heel but it's worth it or a c-section but I really don't want a mark which one do u think 😁

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A C-section is not a birth option. A C-section is a emergency delivery when vaginal is not available. The fact you listed it as a option and then proceeded to say but you really don't want a scar, is really inconsiderate towards mothers who had to have a C-section for medical reasons. I had my first child at 18 years old vaginally and with no medication, it is not that bad. A vagina was made to birth a baby, it's not going to get loose and be ruined from having a kid. Your post would make more sense if you were wondering about natural or medicated vaginal birth. To me when I woman deliberately chooses to have a C-section the only real reason is they don't want to ruin their vagina which doesn't happen anyways. You should really do some more research on birth. Sorry for being rude but that is my biggest pet peeve woman paying more money now just so they don't have to deliver vaginally.

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You should always try for vaginal birth, c-sections are usually if there's an emergency or other issue. C-sections are major surgery, take WAY longer to heal from and you won't be able to hold your baby right after they're birthed. Never opt for one. It should only be used out of necessity.

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I think you should always try for vaginal birth.  It might hurt like hell at the time but I hear the recovery period is much easier and quicker.

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Of course it's going to hurt but we are women, we are strong, and we are made for this! 💪🏼 natural is always best unless there is a medical need.

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Im sure vaginal hurts like hell but c sections arent any fun either. Lemme tell ya, recovery is very painful. Never knew i could experience such pain

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Vaginal

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Wow! That must've been a rough delivery! Both of mine with tears I was up within a few hours after. My first was more traumatic with pushing for two hours but meds helped. My 2nd I had no problems up and walking, but that time my pushed for 8 mins.

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Why is everyone so scared of the pain. The pain is your body communicating with you when to push, when to slow down.... I think you should probably take a birth class so you get a better idea of what birth entales.

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C section is optional these days. 3 of my friends opted for a c section because they didn't want to go through the pain. I would never do it. But to each their own. My friend is due in October and she scheduled her c section for October 8th. Another friend of mine refused to do it vaginally because the pain and she didn't want to mess anything up down there and she paid $5,000 for hers. So it's definitely an option these days. It's no longer just for emergency surgery which is what I always assumed it was only for. But I would never do it unless I had to.

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If you don't have a medical reason for a csection, I am surprised that you are given that option. I say go natural, you can get pain meds if your scared but you forget about the pain once the baby is in your arms. A csection is a major surgery and recovery can be hard. I vote for naturally :)

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