Am i the only person that's gets erked when someone calls there baby an "it" ? You are not having an "it" . You're having a blessing, a baby !! How hard is it to say, "my baby.." or "my blessing.." ? Just because you may not know your babies gender doesn't mean you should call your little blessing an it.. This is just coming from a proud mommy to be that has had a terrible miscarriage and is finally in her 5th month of pregnancy with a healthy and strong blessing.