When to stop popping?

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Just wondering my husband wants a big family I want a small one! Like maximum 4 kids my husband wants like 8 or more ugh that is just annoying I like kids but they get very annoying and when there's so many of them it's like a free for all and would drive me nuts! No way to more than 4 for me!!! (Especially cuz I have fertility issues 😉) but still wondering what other people think!

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Ps not to be rude but if you do have a baseball team of kids do not live on a second or top floor apt, my upstairs neighbors have 6 damn kids n they jump end do cartwheels on our head no carpet!!! I literally complain all day but they don't stop!! I thought of drilling a hole in my ceiling which is their floor so they fall through hahaha😂 but honestly no!!! Do not live on anything but a first floor it's unfair to society!!!!

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If you don't think you can handle more than 4, then stop at 4. Your husband pushing you to have more than you're comfortable with could be the end of your marriage or simply give you a life that you're unhappy with. If having more than 4 would make you unhappy then you definitely don't want to bring more into the mix. If mommy is unhappy then it's likely the kids will feel that and be unhappy as well. Your husband should be grateful that you are willing to give him up to 4 blessings and maybe once you have that many it will feel like enough for him.

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Let me just mention that it's much more overwhelming dealing with someone else's kids than your own. I used to babysit my niece and nephews ( 4 altogether) and would get really overwhelmed, but with mine it's not bad.

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For me I just want 2 kids, I don't think I could handle more then that. I love kids but things can get very stressful at time. I told my husband that since I'm the one that stays at home that my opinion on the number of kids matter the most, he is gone all day at work and only sees our son about 2 hours in the morning and a few hours at night. So honestly I think it should be up to you not your husband.

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I'm on number two, then we are done. I can't have them outnumber us. Lol. And how do you even transport that many kids?  You'd have to buy a church van, or a school bus.

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I think 4 is a great number! My boyfriend and I only want 3-4 kids, all close in age
Maybe eventually your husband will change his mind, my father said he wanted 10 at first and after having me (the third and last baby) he said he changed his mind😄

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Tell him you guys can split it! You deliver for and then he can deliver four! It all works out!😉

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I always wanted to have 2 kids and well I am pregnant with number 4 right now lol. I remember my husband telling me on the beginning of our relationship that he wanted 6 well now he doesn't any more because he sees that it is a lot of work. This will be our last one.

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As many as you can afford I guess!

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Honestly it doesn't matter honestly, because people can be so rude when it comes to this topic, man I love have as much as y'all like

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