My best friend of 16 years lost her baby boy last year at 26 weeks. I recently found out my wife and I are expecting a boy in December and she wants to give me all of her baby stuff. I feel strange about taking it. My wife is really spiritual and thinks there's too much negative energy attached to it. I feel weird because I would hate for her to see my son in it and feel sad or depressed. I'm not sure what I should say or do. Help! Am I just over thinking this?